Sunday, July 18, 2010

did friendship meaningful to me??

"What is a friend? A single soul, dwelling in two bodies" - Aristotle

True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.

Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. Friendship is eternal.

Different people have different definitions of friendship. For some, it is the trust in an individual that he / she won't hurt you. For others, it is unconditional love. There are some who feel that friendship is companionship. People form definitions based on the kind of experiences they have had. This is one relation that has been nurtured since time immemorial. There are famous stories about friends in mythologies of different religions all over the world. They say a person who has found a faithful friend has found a priceless treasure.

Psychologically speaking, friendship may be defined as 'a dynamic, mutual relationship between two individuals. As children become friends, they negotiate boundaries within which both partners function'. This helps them to function like healthy individuals in life as they learn to draw a line as and when needed in a relation. This greatly helps in the emotional development of an individual. However, any relation needs constant nurturing and development from all the people that are involved in one. Friendship cannot survive if one person makes all the effort to sustain it without any mutual recognition from others.

Since friendship starts the moment a child starts socializing, the kind of friends that the child chooses should be taken care of till the time he / she learns to differentiate between right and wrong. Wrong peers or lack of socializing can lead to severe psychological traumas and disorders, finally leading to social maladjustment. The correct peer group is essential for the development of the personality of a child. Both positive and negative experiences refine the personality of the individual. Thus it is essential that you find friends who are compatible with you on an emotional and psychological basis.


i don't really know how meaningful to me ...
i jz realize something that really make feel heartless to my friendship..
did it really belong to me ??
something wrong with my personality ? or what else ??
that make it far away for me ............



Tuesday, July 13, 2010

hey my frenz....
finally im back^^

2day im in good mood cause i get my free netbook from streamyx...
I LOVE U STREAMYX!!!!(only for today^^)

will update my blog tonight...
wait me...

chao...

Sunday, October 11, 2009

icu......

my com still in ICU nw ....
sad..
and my blog gonna die soon ....
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Saturday, May 23, 2009

Bebe...^^








my cute little dog ..^^

but something bad hapen on tis morning ..
haih..

she broke her ankle..
sad sad ..

she cant walk now ..

and i have to stay at home to take care of her
nt going anywhr tis few days ..
haih..






she hav to wear tis thing at nite ...

Thursday, May 21, 2009

A new member ...

a new member in my house
is a doggie

i dun hav a picha of her now
cuz my fon lost
haih

will update her picha soon
when i get it


chao






Thursday, May 14, 2009

so d@mn hak zai lor........

my house kena ROB ..
on last Tuesday 12-05-09...
now my fon lost
and laptop also

recently won on9
cuz no com
haih...


chao

Saturday, May 9, 2009

i love you mommy

happy mother's day





i love u so muuuuuch
much till i cant say it out .....

having dinner 2nite
bt stil haven comfirm at whr ...

wait for my next post la ..


chao